Getting along

People and groups generally care about things going well for them and about there being good possibilities for life in the society at large. So with the rule "Live and let others live" one can well get along. Thr ukle is something like: it is ok for all to be selfish in ways positive for happy life but not to mess with the lives of others, except fairly. The rule does not sound especially good but it works like a miracle. Please see http://finnishskills.blogspot.fi/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html   about it.